He doesn’t make you feel unique, he just uses you.
He doesn’t panic, even when you expect him to, because he loves you.
Uses you: You have a constant feeling of guilt.
He is more aware of how his actions can affect you because he loves you.
He uses you by disappearing.
Loves you: He pays attention to the little things that bring you joy.
We all like huge gestures, but the most important things are the small ones. He may remember things like your favorite flavor of ice cream, the name of your first pet, or the meaningless TV show you watch when you feel bad. These actions show his genuine interest in you, going beyond the usual gestures of flowers and candy (even though we adore them anyway).